From ions, we have been told that if you love someone, set it free, and if they come back to you, they are yours; if they don’t, they were not yours. Time and again, we are reminded that relationships are a by-product of destiny. All the credit is given to destiny without discovering the truth behind it. Though it is not an entirely wrong statement, it is not applicable every time. You can make someone fall in love with you with your gestures. Here we try to elucidate the knowledge by breaking the post into two parts.
- How to make someone fall in love with you?
- How to stay in love with them forever?
Love induces a plethora of positive emotions like euphoria, contentment, gratification, etc. the best way to make someone fall for you is to
1. Show your Unconditional Love
Unconditional love refers to loving someone without any strings attached. It is the purest kind of love where we accept the person’s flaws and love them for who they are without expecting in return, or wanting them to alter things as per our whims and desires. This kind of love has no boundaries and is without expectations. It is all about loving someone wholeheartedly and freely. The ticket to success is to try to shower on them unconditional love, stand for them through thick and thin and take care of their needs. Silently love them as a mother loves their child.
If you think this kind of love doesn’t exist anymore or we are trying to be unrealistic or if it sounds like a fairy tale or love found in movies, let’s knock off the air by saying that it is possible by adopting following ways.
Listen to them – You should learn the art of listening, especially when they are sharing their experience with you. It will create a soft corner for you in their mind.
Speak your feelings – Express your feelings to them to make them understand you better. Don’t inhibit your expressions under the layer of a smile.
Spend time with your wannabe partner – We all are busy in our life, but if you want them to be in head over heels love with you, spend time with time. Talk to them about trivial matters over a cup of coffee or dinner.
Communicate with them – Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Be transparent with your partner and share whatever you feel to make the relationship work.
2. Buy them Gifts
Love in present times is beyond fairy tales. It is a muse marked by hurdles, challenges, ups and downs. If you want them to create an a-ha moment, gift them with something worthy. It will fortify your relationship and spark the feeling of love between both of you.
3. Groom yourself
For woman-Groom yourself with right attire and glamorous accessories like hair bands, crunchies, bow pins, clips, etc. You can even colour your hair before meeting them.
For man-The men should wear a striped blazer, t-shirt with chinos and ensure that their outfit goes well with the mood. The idea is that whatever you wear, it should be a great fit. Even the most expensive outfit will ruin your dating experience if it is not well stitched. Find a shirt that is not too tight or loose.
4. Psychological ways to make Someone fall in Love with you
Don’t get stressed or nervous in front of them – Does your heart pounce when they come in front of you, or does the butterfly run in your stomach when you see them? Well, all these are signs that you are interested in them, but it is also a signal of stress. The best way to relieve yourself is to express your thoughts through music. Music is magic. It not only lowers the stress levels but also helps you to communicate the unspoken feelings. So, the next time when you feel stressed, play the jam and start listening together.
Don’t judge them – Don’t judge your future partner or anyone you want to fall in love with you. Their lifestyle, behaviour, choices, etc., are their personal choice, respect them and don’t make feel inferior and disrespected. Encourage them, appreciate and make them feel valued.
Master on your body language – Communication is not only through words; it also includes your body language. It conveys a lot of messages to the people. If you have a strong feeling for them and make them fall in love with you by
Making an eye contact with them
Showing love gestures
Using these little tips, you can up your communication level and make a connection with your future partner.